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Wedding and Groom’s Relatives..?

26 Aug

I am in a very confusing situation. We are planning a wedding in Guadalajra Mexico in about year and a half from now.

We live in the US, i’ve never been to Mexico so it would be my frist time.

He is was born in Guadalajara thats why we decided to have the wedding there, the problem is, Guadalajara isnt a resort so they dont have wedding packages like Cancun or any other resort does.There are no decent hotels down there as well. I have no idea how i am going to plan a wedding without being down there and seeing everythng with my own eyes. Even if a hotel holds a party, the only thing they provide is food, but i also need church, cake, flowers, band etc..

I do believe that buying and costumizing a wedding package would be much much easier! they prepare the food, cake, music, EVERYTHING>

He only wants a wedding in Gudalajara so his all family could attend it. His immidiate family (mom step dad, brother sister) are well off, but they dont care about the wedding, they never asked me if i need any help, or anything like that.
his other part of the family are not so well off, and he is saying that if we wont have the wedding in Guadalajara they wont be able to attend. Ive never met them, they never invited us to any celebration. He even said we will have to rent a bus and ROOMS for all of them if we decide to have wedding in Porte Vallarta (which i want).

How can i tell him that it is MY WEDDING and not some charity event. I want it to be PERFECT!! i dont want to sound heartless, but i could care less if his other family wouldnt show up.

I know with my side of a family, half of the wedding will pay off with money presents, he said that i shouldnt expect any gifts from his family, and that half of them might show up in jeans.

How can i tell himt that want to have a stress free perfect wedding in Porte Vallarta without hurting his feelings??!!

 

does anyone have any ideas on how to decorate a grooms table for wedding reception that has to do with firefig?

17 Aug

grooms table decorations that have to do with firefighting

 

Any ideas for unique Groom’s table decorations?

23 Apr

Our wedding is very simple and outdoors. My fiance is into outdoors, fishing, and hunting.

 
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Where do I go for a vintage wedding dress (1910-20) and a groom’s suit for a tall man? It’s for an art project?

06 Apr

Wedding dress must be plus-size and I’m not looking to spend a lot of money for this;man’s suit is no doubt going to be cheaper to find! I looked on eBay,and the web… so far nothing. Willing to piece together something (blouse and top) but wish to stay true to the period!Any reasonable ideas will be entertained. Thanx in advance!
like these in white…

http://www.flickr.com/groups/687625@N25/

no modern silhouettes, please!

 
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Notes of a Retired Wedding Videographer: From proposal to reception; lessons learned from Brides and Grooms

04 Mar

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Fall Weddings – Autumn Theme Wedding Ideas for Brides and Grooms

12 Nov

Autumn, what a romantic, wonderful time to get married!

Whether you want your autumn wedding to be very formal, most casual or somewhere in between, you have an enormous variety of possibilities.

It is harvest time. The summer heat is gone. Yet the days are still warm and sunny.

The leaves are turning into an incredible array of colors and as they fall off the trees, create a soft, lush colorful carpet.

Halloween and Thanksgiving are here and can serve as wedding themes or be incorporated for a most unique personalized fall theme wedding.

Can you see the possibilities?

So, put on your thinking cap and get creative.

Following are ideas to help you plan a fall wedding.

WEDDING LOCATION

Following are traditional and not so traditional locations that will enhance your autumn wedding and make it unique and special. Picture your wedding at a:

Park

Bed and Breakfast

Country Inn

Winery

Ranch or on a farm,

Barn

Gazebo

Open Field

Orchard

Nature Preserve

Botanical Garden or in a private Garden

Wooded area

Riverbank or Lakeside

Or anywhere where nature presents its glorious backdrop.

ATTIRE

Bride and her attendants

Fall weather is unpredictable. It may get chilly so, consider heavier fabrics and at least some sleeve for the gown and dresses or top them with matching boleros, stoles or shawls that can, but do not have to be worn.

The wedding gown can be white, ivory, champagne or gold. The gown and or veil may show embroidered leaf motif or dainty gold embroidery. Bridesmaids may wear either the same color or to really represent the autumn theme, have each bridesmaid represent a different fall color. See Fall Colors List.

The bride may wish to wear a fall theme garter and carry a matching hankie.

Bridesmaids and flower girl will look great adorning garlands of fall flowers and leaves.

The groom and his attendants

To reflect the season, the men and boys could wear tan, beige and brown attire instead of the white, black or dark blue. Their ties should be of fall colors matching the bridesmaids dresses and their boutonnière should be a fall flower.

FALL THEME WEDDING ACCESSORIESS

Fall Themed wedding accessories are available on the internet. Most are embelished with fall leaves.
FALL COLORS

white, ivory, champagne, muted gold, tan, beige, various browns, hunter green, burnt orange, rust red, deep red, burgundy, cranberry, wine, navy blue, sky blue, eggplant purple, pewter, silver, pale yellow, pumpkin and orange.

FALL INVITATIONS AND STATIONERY

Accent your invitations and wedding stationery with your chosen fall color.

If you print your own, you may add fall graphics such as leaves, acorns, fall flowers, seasonal fruit, or a horn of plenty. If you purchase fall theme print your own invitations, fall theme is available.

Cut the place cards to look like a fall theme item leaves, pumpkin, turkey siluettes etc…

FLOWERS

Chrysanthemums, roses, daisies, dahlias, lilies, yarrow, orchids, hydrangeas, sunflowers, baby breath, fall leaves, tallow berries, natural or dried wheat.

CEREMONY

Decorate the ceremony site with fall flowers.

Instead of rose petals, fill the flower basket with colorful fall leaves.

Make pew bows from ribbons in your wedding colors and embellish them with fall silk flowers, leaves, fruit, wheat, Indian corn etc…

RECEPTION
Tables

Instead of numbering your tables, name them. For example:

Fall, Autumn, Acorn, Horn of plenty, Cornucopia, Maple, Oak, Apple, Pear, Pumpkin, Cranberry etc…

To add more interest and make it easier to remember give your table addresses. Just add Circle or Square depending on the shape of your tables and you send your guests to Fall Circle or Autumn Square etc…

Use fall color linens.

Ideas for Centerpieces

Before placing a centerpiece, you may strew fall leaves on the reception tables and on the cake tale.

Place A Horn of plenty, a basket or a hollowed pumpkin lined with fall leaves or popcorn and filled with fall fruit, berries, nuts, gourds, mini-pumpkins and-or acorns as your centerpiece.

Pumpkin Ice Sculpture Carve out the inside of pumpkins and place candles in them. If you plan a buffet, you may line hollowed pumpkins with foil and using them as serving dishes.

Fall floral arrangements in a straw basket or hollowed pumpkin.

Place 3 or 4 fall color candles of various sizes in hurricane lamps. The candles may be cinnamon, cranberry, spice or apple scented.

Place leaf or pumpkin shaped floating candles in a bowl, set it on a layer of fall leaves or straw.

Paint or spray mini pumpkins and gourds and group them together.

A real plant with real blooming flowers makes a great gift for guests. Chrysanthemums of many colors are pretty, very reasonably prices and you can get them everywhere; Wal Mart, Home Depot, Lowes, etc…

Display b bales of hay

If you have children, let them participate. Ask them to string cranberries, candies and popcorn and add them to your table decorations.

Display balloons in fall colors

Large chocolate or ice sculpture Turkeys

FAVORS

Fruit shaped candles

Favor boxes or bags filled with candy corn

Caramel Apples

The Perfect Pear items

Garden in a bag or box

Fall theme cookies

Fall theme chocolates

Fall theme lollypops

Maple candies

RECEPTION DECORATIONS

Fall theme ribbons and bows, garlands, paper lanterns or luminaries with amber light bulbs, balloons, chains of stringed popcorn, cranberries, candies, paper chains, bales of hay, ivy, garlands etc…

Accent the doorways and tables with tulle and ribbons in your wedding colors. Adhere leaves and silk flowers for inexpensive, elegant displays.

CAKE

Decorate your cake with leaves, fall flowers, mini pumpkins, mini apples, marzipan fruit etc…

Flavors: Spice cake, pumpkin cake, dark chocolate cake, nut cake.

Food items you may wish to consider

Nuts

DRINKS: Apple cider, Sparkling cider

MAIN DISHES especially if close to Thanksgiving: Turkey, stuffing, corn, potatoes, cranberry sauce etc…

DESSERTS: Pumpkin pie, Apple pie, Pecan pie

HALLOWEEN WEDDINGS

Wedding colors white black and orange

Treat or trick bag for bridal purse and or as guest favors

Costumes or masks

Jack O’lantern ice sculpture or actual pumpkin as centerpiece.

Jack O’lantern favors

DO NOT display ghosts at your wedding.

You do not want to start your life together with “ghosts in your closet”.

FUN IDEAS

Hay rides, Horse and Buggy rides, blowing soap bubbles,

Harvest the rewards of your Autumn Theme Wedding planning and have a super event.

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