My guy and I have been together for 2 1/2 year; engaged for about 7 months. We are both in our 30s and have both been married before. We both are bringing two kids to this relationship– I love his girls and he loves my boys.
We have a great sexual relationship and we really are best friends, but.. we do have some issues that we argue about A LOT- mostly, that he never voices his love and affection for me. I don’t think I should have to force him to tell me how much he loves/appreciates me. He always tells me that that is just the way he is- I should let his actions speak for him because he can’t (he buys flowers for me, makes dinner, etc); he thinks I party too much. Yes, I like to go out with friends and have wine or drinks- it’s not every night and.. before you get judgmental, the kids are with grandma and grandpa when I go out. I am just a very spunky, fun loving gal with a lot of friends in my life and I believe in living life to the fullest. He doesn’t really have friends of his own– a few guys from work but they don’t go out socially. My friends are his friends by default.
Our wedding is planned for mid May (of this year) and I’m really having some second thoughts– I know that I love him but I just don’t know if that’s enough to make this marriage work. Everything is all set for the wedding– ceremony, reception, dresses, honeymoon, invitations. I don’t know what to do. Is this normal cold feet? I was much younger when I married for the first time (and did not have kids) and I did not feel this way (although looking back there were red flags I should have seen)
Should I hope that this feeling passes or should I leave him? The issues we argue about now are issues that have been there since day 1 of our relationship.
Don’t talk about sex please. I do see there should be at least 1-lb. of chocolates on the kitchen table first thing February 14, 2010. There must be a constant supply of coffee. It would be nice to have 2 dozen bakery frosted cookies, and one Valentine cake. But what for real food? Happy Valentines Day.
Date : February 28th, 2010Category : UncategorizedAuthor : Editor2 Comments
I have just started a 2nd job, delivering take away food. My current insurance is due for renewal next wed and i currently have SD&P inc communting, but ive tried adding on my 2nd job and they wont insure me. apparantly, i have to state this as my main job due to increase in risk and include business miles class 1 or 3, i have tried all the ‘comparison’ sites and they quote a price and when you ring – they cant quote on that job…. does anyone have any suggestions as to which car insurance companies cover this job??? time running owt!!! ta
the police are clamping down in my area on delivery drivers, my mate got busted the other week for not having the correct insurance, i dont wana take chance of getting caught!
I am loving this cake and would like to surround the entire cake table w/red rose petals. Of course, it would be quite expensive to cover with real roses. So can I get away w/using silk rose petals instead?
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